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Queer Expression in Film

Dorothy: Now which way do we go?
Scarecrow: Pardon me, this way is a very nice way.
Dorothy: Who said that?
[Toto barks at scarecrow]
Dorothy: Don’t be silly, Toto. Scarecrows don’t talk.
Scarecrow: [points other way] It’s pleasant down that way, too.
Dorothy: That’s funny. Wasn’t he pointing the other way?
Scarecrow: [points BOTH ways] Of course, some people do go both ways.

i’ve been sayin this for years… lol!



Minnesota Representative Steve Simon for his brilliant testimony in opposition of discrimination against gay people on religious grounds

Though Minnesota politicians voted to put a gay marriage ban on the ballot in 2012 yesterday, the eloquent words of one of the measure’s detractors have caught the nation’s attention.

Rep. Steve Simon, DFL-St. Louis Park, gave an impassioned speech asking lawmakers on the House committee not to place a gay marriage ban in the state’s Constitution. (Gay marriage is already outlawed in the state.) He also objected to the religious tone of the debate, as most of the people testifying in favor of the ballot measure were faith leaders or using religious arguments.

“I’m Jewish. Eating pork or shellfish is not allowed in my tradition, but I would never ask the government to impose that on our fellow citizens,” Simon said. “We have to be careful about trying to enshrine our beliefs, however religiously valid you may believe them to be, in the Minnesota Constitution.”

He then referenced a clergy member who testified to the committee that sexuality was a gift from God.

“I think that’s true […] and I would ask everyone on this committee […] if that’s true, if it’s even possibly true, what does that do to the moral force of your argument?”

“How many more gay people does God have to create before we ask ourselves whether or not God actually wants them around?” he asked to applause.

The video so far clocked 80,000 views on YouTube, and gone viral on celebrity and gay rights blogs. Celebrity blogger Perez Hilton titled his post “How many gays must God create before we accept that he wants them around?” and asked people to “open your eyes, your minds, and your hearts to change!” Gawker wrote Simon’s simple question is a “great new slogan” for gay equality.

At the Committee hearing, however, Bishop Bob Battle of the Berean Church of God in Christ said that he thinks gays already have full civil rights, and that same-sex marriage is not the same as interracial marriage,according to the Minnesota Independent,  ”I don’t consider gay marriages as the same as whites not being allowed to marry blacks,” he said. According to Minnesota Public Radio, the anti-gay marriage Minnesota Family Council and the Catholic Church have both lobbied hard in favor of the amendment.

In a party-line vote, the measure passed 10 to 7. A similar measure passed out of a committee in the state Senate at the end of April, after lawmakers heard emotional testimony from relatives and supporters of gay Minnesotans.

“I frequently hear that the marriage amendment is needed to support and protect families. I ask you today, why isn’t my daughter’s family worthy of support?” Bruce Ause of Red Wing, who has a daughter in a same-sex relationship, asked the committee. “If this amendment passes today, how will I explain to my grandson that in the eyes of Minnesota, his family is worthless?”

John Quinn, the bishop of the Winona Archdiocese, testified that “marriage is the union of one man and one woman, and law must reflect what we know from reason, experience, tradition as well as revelation,” according to Minnesota Public Radio.

Republicans took control of both houses last November, and while Democratic Gov Mark Dayton supports gay marriage, his approval is not needed for the measure to be on the ballot.




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conservatives call GLEE episode “product placement”

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This video is just crazy talk. Gay rights activist Ray Hill faces off against Bryan Fischer of the American Family Association.

Fischer calls the show product placement, saying, “[A]dvertisers purchase time on television programs because they know that what people see on television influences their behavior and influences their choices. We should not glamorize it [gay relationships] anymore than we would glamorize intravenous drug use.”

He also compares gay sex to being as dangerous as intravenous drug use!! He talks erroneously about HIV, completely ignoring that heterosexual contact has been a driver of HIV for the last ten years.

I also think that they give far too little credit to human agency, and far too much to the power of product placement. Just because I see a product on TV doesn’t mean I mindlessly head to the mall and buy it! People do have brains – even though it’s sometimes hard to believe.

ABC News talked to Dan Gainor, vice president of conservative media watchdog Media Research Center: “This is [creator] Ryan Murphy’s latest depraved initiative to promote his gay agenda. This is clearly Ryan Murphy’s vision of what growing up should be, not most of America’s. It’s a high school most parents would not want to send their kids too.”


Social environment linked to gay teen suicide risk

(Reuters Health) - Lesbian, gay and bisexual teens are five times more likely to attempt suicide than their heterosexual peers - but those living in a supportive community might be a little better off, according to a new study.

The findings, published online today in Pediatrics, showed that lesbian, gay and bisexual (LGB) teens living in counties with a high proportion of gay and lesbian couples, and those who went to schools with gay-straight alliances and anti-discrimination policies, were less likely to attempt suicide than LGB teens living in less accepting environments.

The finding is “a call to action in providing a roadmap for how we can begin to reduce suicide in LGB youth,” Mark Hatzenbuehler, the study’s author from Columbia University in New York, told Reuters Health.

He said that while previous studies have shown that LGB teens are more likely to attempt suicide, those studies haven’t been able to determine why exactly that’s the case.

Hatzenbuehler used data from 3 years of health surveys given to teens in Oregon. The data covered more than 30,000 high school students across the state, all surveyed during 11th grade.

Teens answered questions about depression, alcohol use, and relationships with their peers and family, as well as their sexuality.

To evaluate teens’ social environments, Hatzenbuehler gave each of the 34 counties where survey participants lived a score based on the proportion of same-sex couples living there, the county’s percentage of registered Democrats, and the proportion of schools in the area that had gay-straight alliances and anti-discrimination and anti-bullying policies.

About 1400 — or between 4 and 5 percent — of teens surveyed identified themselves as being gay, lesbian, or bisexual.

Of those students, almost 22 kids out of every hundred said they had attempted suicide in the past year. That compared to about 4 of every hundred teens who identified as straight and said they had attempted suicide.

Suicide attempts were more common in LGB teens who reported being depressed and binge drinking, as well as those who had been victimized by their peers or physically abused by an adult.

But even accounting for all those factors, teens’ social environment made a difference too. Those who lived in counties that scored poorly on measures of social environment were about 20 percent more likely to have attempted suicide than teens from high-scoring social environments.

“That challenges the myth that there’s something inherent to being gay that puts (LGB teens) at risk for suicide attempts,” Hatzenbuehler said.

The findings show that by making a few concrete changes to their policies, schools can improve the community for their LGB students and perhaps cut down on attempted suicides as well, Hatzenbuehler said.

Dr. Ritch Savin-Williams, a psychologist from Cornell University in Ithaca, New York, questioned the notion that LGB youth are more likely to attempt suicide at all, and said the issue is more controversial than this study suggests.

He said that while LGB youth report suicide attempts more often than straight youth, their idea of a suicide attempt may be skewed. “We have given them the message that they are suicidal,” Savin-Williams, who wasn’t involved in the study, told Reuters Health.

That’s not to say that life is easy for those teens, Savin-Williams said, and many of their thoughts of suicide might be attributed to LBG youth being victimized or hurt.

And it also doesn’t mean schools shouldn’t be doing everything they can to protect those teens with anti-discrimination policies, he added.

“Every kid has to be protected, every kid has to be safe, and it’s the school’s responsibility to do that,” Savin-Williams said. But rather than highlight suicide risks, he said, “my approach would be: look what kind of abilities you’re squashing by not having protection of gay kids. I think that’s a real loss.”

Recently, some high schools and districts have faced legal trouble surrounding bans on gay-straight alliances, including schools in Corpus Christi, Texas last month.

“If schools want to take seriously reducing suicide attempts among LGB youth, several things they can do are allowing gay-straight alliances, implementing anti-discrimination policies and implementing anti-bulling policies,” Hatzenbuehler concluded. “We can reduce suicide attempts in LGB youth by improving the social environment.”


Chely Wright Engaged!

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Chely Wright is off the market! The country singer confirms to People magazine that she is engaged to Lauren Blitzer, a GLBT (Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender) activist and co-author of ‘Same Sex in the City (So Your Prince Charming Is Really a Cinderella),’ a lighthearted self-help book for lesbians.

“They met through their youth advocacy work, and say that their passion for Scrabble holds them together,” a rep for Chely tells People.

The two will be married August 20 in Connecticut, one of only five states in the U.S. with marriage rights for same-sex couples.

This engagement announcement comes less than a year after Chely came out publicly as a lesbian.

“There had never, ever been a country music artist who had acknowledged his or her homosexuality,” she told People just after coming out. “I wasn’t going to be the first … But nothing in my life has been more magical than the moment I decided to come out.”

The 40-year-old singer/songwriter says going public with her sexuality has been a rocky road, complete with bullying and taunting. But she’s also had poignant moments of support — and those are what stick with her most.

“I was nervous to come back,” Chely told The Boot last summer at her Reading, Writing and Rhythm benefit in Nashville. “But the fans in country music have been incredible. Country music fans are loving and supportive. They know I love ‘em, and as Minnie Pearl said, ‘If you love ‘em, they’ll love you back. And boy, are they!”

Chely’s coming out journey is being documented in a new film, ‘Wish Me Away,’ expected to be released later this year. Something tells us this movie will have a happy ending.


Bullying in Jesus’ name

This year’s National Day of Silence, a project of GLSEN, the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network, will be held on April 15. As they put it on the project site:

On the National Day of Silence hundreds of thousands of students nationwide take a vow of silence to bring attention to anti-LGBT name-calling, bullying and harassment in their schools.
Simple idea with simple goals. And who could argue that GLBT youth shouldn’t be safe in their schools and lives?

Naturally, far right “Christians” despise this day and its message. They’ve tried to get schools to ban it and punish any students who take part. Their politico-religious groups stage a counter event they call the “Day of Dialogue [sic],” which sounds so wholesome and innocent.

This campaign promoting bigotry went too far even for the vile Exodus ministry, probably the best-known purveyors of the “ex gay” scam. Concerned about this project’s role in encouraging the rash of teen suicides, Exodus dropped out and passed it on to the equally vile Focus On The “Family”.

Focus-on-your-own-damn-family says of their day:
“The whole idea is to help embolden and encourage students to want to express their biblical viewpoint in a loving and grace-filled way, especially when controversial sexual topics are brought up in their school and they feel like maybe their viewpoint is being stifled.”
I call bullshit. “Loving and grace-filled”? Since when? They go on:
“So this just gives them some tools for being able to be confident and loving [sic] in expressing their biblical viewpoint. The whole idea of silence seems more like a media opportunity—but the idea of dialogue is that this is an actual learning opportunity for students and a free exchange of ideas among them.”
These bigots aren’t interested in “dialogue” or “a free exchange of ideas”, and the only “learning” they want is for GLBT youth to “learn” that they deserve to be bullied because of who they are. A “media opportunity”? They have NO right to attack anyone for that, master grandstanders that they are. The whole point of the Day of Silence is to call attention to anti-GLBT bullying and harassment so that it can be ended. This means, most importantly, at individual schools; if the newsmedia picks up the story and helps spread the word that this bullying is wrong, that’s a good thing, a benefit to society.

The religious bigots can try to spin this all they want, but the fact is that the Day of Silence is an attempt to combat bullying and harassment of GLBT youth. These religious bigots, on the other hand, promote bullying and harassment as a good thing—so long as they bully, shame and ostracise GLBT kids in “a loving and grace-filled way”, of course.

These religious bigots are entitled to their bigoted beliefs, no matter how immoral or un-Christian it may be, and they’re free to spout that hatred and bigotry in their churches—not in public schools—and, like all bigots, they’re entitled to their opinions. They’re not entitled to their own facts, however.

One fact is so simple even the bigots should be capable of understanding it: GLBT youth are entitled to be safe in school and they’re entitled to grow up and have a life. The bigots are not entitled to try and prevent that.

I never link to bigots’ sites, so if you want to get to it you’ll need to go to the post on Joe.My.God., where I found this. 



if Bushes and Cheneys are coming out in support of gay marriage, shouldn’t Obama?



Ellen at Universal Orlando

Yes, i was there! 2nd photo compliments of my BFF and her mad camera phone skills!


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